Crowded places, and sweaty asians

Now, there's always something there that irks everyone. An irk is let's say.....like a pet peeve? Sometimes it's people who irk other people, sometimes it's animals, or it could be something completely different all together. As for me, my major irk sometimes are crowded places. Like clubs or bars, or shops at the shopping mall. It makes you wonder what kind of person in good conscience would willing put themselves smack-dab in the middle of a crowd of people. Especially when it's humid, my god, I feel like i can barely breathe occasionally.

Now, as hypocritical as it sounds, when you're having fun, say a club, the crowd really doesn't bug you. But when you're not and kind of just standing there talking with some friends, it could begin to pick at you. Example, Earlier tonight I was at SOUL (a club in SG), and I swear, when I got home and got in the shower, i scrapped an inch of sweat off my arms, and worst thing is that i don't think it was all my own O_O;;

When people are crowded in a small area, when it's humid, and when they're dancing their pants off, people don't realize too often that for the amount of people walking by you after dancing, their sweat just rubs off on you. It's preeeeeeeetty gross when you really think about it. But all in all, tonight wasn't too bad. I sought refuge in the smoking chamber and M walked in and we had a really good laugh and talk about random things and then he walked me out and I got home in one piece. and maybe pieces of other people considering the sweat was a rather large amount to be mine as I wasn't dancing and sitting or standing around the whole time. But now I'm as clean as a whistle and basking in the comfort of my air-conditioned room. Shower pl0x?

M x

So earlier tonight, A really good friend of mine was having a party since it was his birthday. Now, knowing me, I left early because I usually get lost and also this was my first time ever going in that area, so I left an hour earlier at about 9 and the party was at 10. First off, I map the address to getting there and decide to bus it the whole way. I got lost for THREE hours (lol!). Finally found it and it was all shits and giggles until a few hours passed, but then it got weird. A few girls suddenly had a wave of PMS and were upset, and kind of depressed which really brought the mood down. I had no idea what they were thinking so i kinda kept on with my thing and talking with 2 of my good guy friends. Then weirder again. Soon everyone was segregated in these small groups and just talking within them, but whatever, most of us didn't really know each other and tonight was the first time meeting.

So onwards as the weirdness continued with everyone else, my guy friend (let's call him M) We were talking about something with D and cracking jokes and we have hugs and stuff, then when M hugs me, he starts sniffing (lol). Then when he pulls away, he says "You smell like cucumber salad....and....*sniffsniff* Goulash? (Venison stew or something)" apparently? So I start sniffing myself and I'm like..."...no?" Then this mad beast takes a bite at my arm. Haha, so lucky we were good friends so I already kinda know what kind of weirdo this guy is, and meanwhile D decides to go off behind some trees and drain his um.....special place. and I swore, he was perfectly aligned with this tree, i didn't know where he went until he popped his little head out and I was like "Oh! there he is! (lol)" Then a few seconds later, he didn't come back so I was wondering if he was STILL behind the tree. And he pops his head out again. and sweethearts, i don't mean the one on his neck. I mean his little friend. M laughs his ass off as I'm kind of doing the same. next thing you know, you hear girls screaming (hahahah). Oops, I guess he forgot that there were other people around, whoopsy daisy. Other than all that jazz and unspoken drama between the girls, tonight went along swimmingly. Tons of fun, and a day most of us need. Enjoyment and leisure with friends. Awesome pl0x? :D

M x

Learn to breathe before you really live

Okay, so I know that there's a lot of people who always say "Live for the moment!", but seriously....what IS the moment? Imagine if you kept holding yourself back for 'the moment' when you're not even entirely sure when it would be. Sure, it's okay to want to wait for 'the moment' if you'd like, but who ever said that it couldn't be "Live for the moments"? It's such a waste to only really LIVE once in your life. Everyone should spend more time living when they can. I mean, sure, as we all get older there are more things that pop up, like work, relationships, dispositions etc.. But I'm sure there's a thin line in the balance there that can prove both satisfying, and responsible at the same time! Life is too short to enjoy only at certain times, so every should go out there, have fun (but also being responsible to prior commitments), and instead of looking for 'the moment', enjoy what's in-front of you right now?

M x